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Healing Through Life's Most Difficult Transitions
Healing Through Life's Most Difficult Transitions
Grief creates profound pain, isolation, and disorientation that affects every aspect of your life and challenges your sense of meaning and connection. At Angeles Psychology Group, we provide specialized grief therapy that addresses the depth of loss through comprehensive bereavement counseling services. Our holistic approach integrates loss and mourning support, complicated grief treatment, and death and dying therapy with depth psychology, helping you honor your loss, process complex emotions, find continuing bonds, and gradually rebuild meaning through transformative mind-body-spirit healing.
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Understanding Grief as a Sacred Human Experience
Grief is not an illness to cure or a flaw to eliminate. It is a natural and profoundly human response to loss. Whether you are mourning the death of someone close to you, the end of a meaningful relationship, a change in your health or abilities, a major life transition, or any other significant loss, grief touches every part of your life. It influences your emotions, your body, your thoughts, your routines, your relationships, and even your spiritual beliefs. At Angeles Psychology Group, our grief therapy honors the truth that healing does not require forgetting what you lost. Real healing involves learning to carry your grief with compassion while finding new ways to engage with life, honoring both your pain and your capacity for connection and growth.
Grief is personal and varied. It is shaped by what you lost, the depth of your relationship, the circumstances surrounding the loss, your coping style, cultural or spiritual beliefs, your past experiences, and the support available to you. There is no single correct way to grieve. There is no fixed timeline for healing. And no emotion is wrong in the grieving process. The popular idea of grief occurring in strict stages oversimplifies a deeply individual and non-linear experience. You may feel profound sadness one day, anger the next, unexpected calm afterward, and then a return of despair. These shifts are normal and do not mean you are grieving incorrectly. Our bereavement counseling services help you understand these natural fluctuations.
Grief affects far more than emotions. It can influence physical health, thinking patterns, behavior, relationships, and spiritual beliefs. Understanding grief’s wide impact helps you feel less alone and more supported as you navigate healing through our loss and mourning support.
The Many Faces of Loss
Death and Bereavement
The death of a loved one is among the deepest pains a person can experience. Whether the loss involves a spouse, parent, child, sibling, friend, or someone else important, their absence leaves an irreplaceable space in your life and heart. Sudden losses create shock and trauma. Expected losses after lengthy illness bring complex feelings, including relief blended with sorrow. Complicated circumstances, such as suicide, homicide, accidents, or cases where a body is not recovered, add another layer of hardship. Our complicated grief treatment provides sensitive, tailored support for these difficult experiences.
Relationship Losses
Divorce, separation, breakups, estrangement, or the end of friendships all create grief that is often minimized by others. Yet these losses are real. You grieve not only the relationship, but also shared dreams, daily routines, and the future you imagined. The person may still be alive, but the relationship itself has ended, which can feel as painful as or even more complicated than physical death. Our death and dying therapy acknowledges these meaningful losses.
Health and Ability Losses
Chronic illness, disability, infertility, cognitive decline, pregnancy loss, or changes in physical or mental abilities require grieving the life you expected to have. These losses are often ongoing and ambiguous. You are still alive but profoundly changed. Many people around you may not understand the depth of this grief. Our grief therapy validates these experiences and helps you navigate them.
Life Transition and Identity Losses
Job loss, retirement, major career changes, children leaving home, immigration, loss of community, financial setbacks, or dreams that did not come to pass all involve grief. These experiences affect identity, purpose, and security. They are rarely acknowledged as significant losses, leaving many people feeling unsupported. Our bereavement counseling services help bring understanding and compassion to these forms of grief.
Disenfranchised and Ambiguous Grief
When Others Do Not Recognize Your Loss
Disenfranchised grief occurs when your loss is not acknowledged or validated by others. This may include pet loss, pregnancy loss, estrangement, the end of harmful relationships, grief for public figures, or losses others label insignificant. This lack of recognition increases suffering. Our loss and mourning support offers a safe place for these overlooked forms of grief.
Ambiguous Loss
Ambiguous loss happens when there is no clear resolution. Examples include missing persons, dementia, or relationships in which someone is physically present but emotionally gone. The uncertainty prevents closure and complicates the grieving process. Our complicated grief treatment helps you navigate these difficult experiences.
Anticipatory Grief
When loss has not yet occurred but is expected, such as terminal illness or impending divorce, grief begins before the actual loss. This anticipatory grief is valid and involves holding two realities at once. Our death and dying therapy helps you manage this emotional complexity.
Secondary Losses
Major losses often bring additional secondary losses. After the death of a spouse, for example, you may also grieve financial changes, altered routines, shifts in social roles, or a loss of identity. Naming and mourning these secondary layers is essential for healing, supported through our grief therapy interventions.
Our Root-Cause Approach to Bereavement Counseling Services
Internal Family Systems for Grief Parts
IFS helps you understand grief through the lens of different emotional parts within you. Sad parts carry deep longing. Angry parts protest the unfairness of the loss. Guilty parts hold regrets. Protective parts may numb feelings to prevent overwhelm. Through our loss and mourning support, you learn to compassionately connect with each part so your core Self can integrate your grief without abandoning or overpowering any emotional experience.
Continuing Bonds Instead of Letting Go
Healing does not require releasing your bond with who or what you lost. Instead, you develop a changed but continuing connection. You carry forward values, memories, and meaning. Our complicated grief treatment helps you maintain this relationship while living into a new chapter of life.
Meaning Making and Narrative Integration
Rather than seeking reasons for your loss, we help you integrate it into your life story. Through narrative therapy, you explore both the meaning of your relationship and the meaning of your grief. This work supports growth and purpose moving forward through our death and dying therapy.
Emotion Focused Therapy for Grief Emotions
Grief contains many emotions, sometimes all at once. EFT provides a structured space to feel sadness, anger, relief, guilt, fear, love, and longing without judgment. When emotions are allowed expression, their intensity naturally shifts over time through our grief therapy approach.
Somatic Experiencing and Body-Centered Work
Grief often settles into the body as heaviness, tension, or exhaustion. Somatic work helps you notice and release these physical expressions. Gentle breathwork and body-centered techniques support movement through stuck grief. Our bereavement counseling services include this integrated approach.
Comprehensive Loss and Mourning Support
Creating Safety for Grief
We begin by establishing safety. This includes building coping skills, ensuring basic self-care, stabilizing your environment, and preparing you for grief processing in a way that does not overwhelm. Our complicated grief treatment focuses on your readiness and wellbeing.
Telling Your Story
Retelling your story of loss helps bring coherence to your experience. This includes the relationship, the loss itself, and the impact it has had. Sharing your story in a supportive environment allows the mind and heart to gradually integrate it. Our death and dying therapy encourages this essential narrative work.
Honoring the Full Range of Grief
We welcome every form of grief expression. Tears, silence, anger, numbness, confusion, laughter, or stillness all have a place. There is no wrong grief response. Through our grief therapy, we help you understand the purpose behind each feeling.
Practical Daily Support
Daily life can feel unmanageable during grief. We offer guidance for maintaining essential routines, handling responsibilities, facing holidays or anniversaries, and slowly re-engaging with activities. Our bereavement counseling services walk with you through these challenges.
Addressing Complicated Grief Treatment Needs
Understanding Complicated Grief
Complicated grief involves persistent and intense yearning, difficulty accepting the loss, emotional numbness, bitterness, or disrupted functioning that does not ease over time. About ten percent of people experience this form of grief. Our loss and mourning support provides specialized treatment for these deeper struggles.
Trauma and Grief
Sudden or violent losses create both trauma and grief. You may experience intrusive memories, fear, avoidance, or hypervigilance. We offer integrated treatment that addresses both the traumatic and grieving components through our complicated grief approach.
Multiple or Cumulative Losses
Experiencing several losses in a short period or carrying old unprocessed losses can overwhelm the emotional system. We help you navigate grief overload with steady, structured support through our death and dying therapy.
Ambivalent Relationships
When your relationship with the person who died was complex or painful, grief becomes layered and confusing. You may mourn them while also grieving unresolved conflict. Our grief therapy provides space for honest and nuanced processing.
Working with Specific Loss Types
Sudden and Traumatic Death
Loss from accidents, suicide, homicide, or sudden medical events requires support that addresses both shock and sorrow. Our bereavement counseling services help you process trauma and grief with care.
Anticipated Loss and Caregiving
Terminal illness involves anticipatory grief, caregiver stress, and ongoing emotional uncertainty. We support patients and families through illness, death, and bereavement through our loss and mourning services.
Pregnancy and Infant Loss
Miscarriage, stillbirth, and infant loss carry deep pain that is often minimized by others. We provide specialized support for grieving parents through our complicated grief treatment.
Suicide Loss
Grieving a suicide loss involves complex emotions such as shock, guilt, anger, and confusion. We offer sensitive support for survivors through our death and dying therapy.
Pet Loss
Pets are family members, and their loss deserves recognition and support. Our grief therapy honors the significance of these bonds.
Family and Relationship Dimensions
Different Grief Styles
Family members may grieve the same loss in very different ways, creating misunderstandings. We help families recognize each person’s unique grief style through our bereavement counseling services.
Children and Grief
Children grieve based on their developmental stage. We help families support grieving children with age-appropriate care through our loss and mourning support.
Couples Grieving Together
Shared loss, especially the loss of a child, places significant strain on relationships. We provide couples support that honors each partner’s grief process through our complicated grief treatment.
Family Communication
We help families communicate about grief, navigate decisions, and maintain connection during mourning through our death and dying therapy.
Cultural and Spiritual Dimensions
Honoring Cultural Practices
Culture shapes how people experience and express grief. We respect and integrate cultural rituals and beliefs into treatment through our grief therapy.
Spiritual and Existential Questions
Loss often raises questions about meaning, justice, and faith. Our bereavement counseling services provide space for spiritual exploration without judgment.
Rituals and Memorialization
Creating rituals and meaningful memorials can support healing. We help patients develop personal and culturally meaningful ways to honor loss through our loss and mourning work.
Finding Meaning After Loss
We support the search for meaning that can emerge through grief. This meaning does not justify the loss, but reflects human resilience. Our complicated grief treatment guides this growth.
Physical and Mental Health in Grief
Physical Symptoms
Grief frequently affects physical health. Fatigue, sleep changes, appetite disruptions, aches, and lowered immunity are common. We monitor these symptoms while supporting recovery through our death and dying therapy.
Grief and Depression
Grief can resemble depression, but they are not the same. We help distinguish between the two and offer appropriate support through our grief therapy.
Anxiety and Grief
Loss often triggers anxiety about safety or future harm. We address these concerns through our bereavement counseling services.
Substance Use and Grief
Some people use substances to cope with overwhelming grief. Our loss and mourning support integrates both grief care and substance use treatment when needed.
The Long-Term Grief Journey
Grief Waves and Triggers
Grief does not disappear. It tends to come in waves. Anniversaries, holidays, or unexpected reminders may bring strong feelings years later. This is normal. Our complicated grief treatment helps you navigate these waves.
Building a New Identity
Loss reshapes identity. You are not who you were before the loss, but you are not defined only by grief either. Our death and dying therapy helps you explore and integrate this new sense of self.
Post Traumatic Growth
Many people discover unexpected growth after grief, such as deeper compassion, new clarity, or strengthened spirituality. We support this growth while respecting your ongoing pain through our grief therapy.
Carrying Love Forward
We help you find ways to honor and carry forward the love, values, and meaning connected to what you lost. This deepens healing through our bereavement counseling services.
Specialized Group Therapy Options
Gay Men’s Therapy Group
Our group explores grief within LGBTQ+ contexts, including chosen family, historical trauma, and experiences of discrimination. This supportive space is offered through our loss and mourning services.
Black Men’s Healing Group
This group addresses grief within the experiences of Black men, including community violence, systemic loss, and cultural expectations around emotional expression. Our complicated grief treatment integrates cultural understanding into the healing process.
The Angeles Psychology Group Difference
Depth Psychology for Meaningful Grief
Our training in IFS, depth psychology, and meaning-centered therapy supports profound and compassionate grief work through our death and dying services.
No Pressure to Move On
We respect your unique timeline. Healing does not require rushing toward closure or leaving grief behind. Our grief therapy meets you where you are.
Continuing Bonds Approach
We honor the continuing connection you hold with who or what you lost. Our bereavement counseling services support this healthy bond.
Holistic Mind Body Spirit Support
We address grief across your entire being, including emotional, physical, relational, and spiritual dimensions through our loss and mourning work.
Free Consultation
We offer a complimentary consultation to help you explore support during this difficult time.
Extended Hours
Our complicated grief treatment services are available from 7 AM to 10 PM through in-person and telehealth appointments, offering flexibility when grief makes daily functioning difficult.
Culturally Competent Care
We provide culturally responsive grief support that respects the diverse ways people mourn through our death and dying therapy.
Hope in the Darkness
Grief is painful, overwhelming, and disorienting. Yet with compassionate support that honors both your suffering and your strength, most people eventually find more space to breathe, connect, and live with meaning again. You will always love and remember what you lost. But the weight can soften. The sharpness can ease. The waves can become more navigable. Hope exists even in the darkest parts of grief. Our grief therapy helps guide you toward that hope.
Begin Your Healing Journey
If your loss has left your world shattered or your grief feels too heavy to carry alone, professional support can make a meaningful difference. Contact Angeles Psychology Group today to schedule your free consultation and learn how our grief therapy, bereavement counseling services, loss and mourning support, complicated grief treatment, and depth-focused death and dying therapy can help you honor your loss, process painful emotions, maintain continued connection, and gradually rebuild purpose through integrated mind body spirit healing.
If you are in crisis or need immediate help, please visit 988lifeline.org or call or text 988 to reach the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline.
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Meet Our Founder
Neil Schierholz PsyD
I am the founder of Angeles Psychology Group and a Clinical Psychologist with a focus on helping people heal from chaos, overwhelm, harshness, and social inhibitions. Much of my work focuses on relationships: The relationship you have with yourself, others, the environment, and the cosmos.
I help people come home to who they really are, either by remembering it or discovering it for the first time. This happens through dismantling and gaining lasting freedom from unconscious defenses that are holding you back from having the life you really want and can have. I primarily use holistic character analysis and orgonomic (somatic) therapy in my work, coupled with a strong sociocultural, feminist orientation.
I work with adult individuals, couples, families, and all sorts of personal and professional relationships.
Research shows that the relationship you have with your therapist is the most important factor for successful outcomes. Let’s get started with a free consultation to explore if I’m the best fit for you.
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