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Sex therapy at Angeles Psychology Group provides a safe, affirming space to address sexual concerns that affect your wellbeing, relationships, and sense of self. Our approach to sexual dysfunction treatment goes beyond surface-level techniques to explore root causes including attachment wounds, trauma histories, body image struggles, and relational patterns.
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Transformative Sex Therapy: Deep Healing for Sexual Wholeness
Sexuality is a fundamental aspect of human experience—yet so many people struggle in silence with concerns they feel too ashamed or embarrassed to discuss. Sex therapy offers a safe, professional space to address sexual challenges that affect your wellbeing, relationships, self-esteem, and overall quality of life. At Angeles Psychology Group, we don’t just offer quick fixes or behavioral techniques. We guide you toward transformation by addressing the root causes of sexual difficulties, helping you reclaim authentic expression, pleasure, and connection that may have been compromised by trauma, shame, medical conditions, relationship dynamics, or cultural messaging.
Our holistic approach to sexual dysfunction treatment goes beyond conventional interventions. We integrate mind-body-spirit healing through specialized modalities including Orgonomic therapy, Emotion-Focused Therapy, and depth psychology. This comprehensive intimacy counseling approach addresses not only the behavioral and relational dimensions of sexuality but also the somatic blocks, emotional wounds, and unconscious patterns that create sexual difficulties, helping you reclaim the vitality, pleasure, and authentic connection that everyone deserves to experience.
Understanding the Deep Impact of Sexual Difficulties
Sexual concerns create wounds that extend far beyond the bedroom. Difficulties with desire, arousal, orgasm, pain, or connection fundamentally affect your self-esteem, your sense of attractiveness and desirability, your intimate relationships, and your overall sense of vitality and aliveness. People struggling with sexual issues often experience shame, anxiety, depression, relationship conflict, avoidance of intimacy, and profound loneliness even within committed partnerships.
The effects of sexual difficulties manifest uniquely for each person. Some people struggle with physical symptoms like erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, pain during intercourse, or inability to orgasm. Others experience psychological challenges like low desire, arousal difficulties, performance anxiety, or disconnection during sex. Some face relational issues rooted in mismatched libidos, communication barriers, or attachment wounds. There’s no single way that sexual difficulties present, and your journey toward sexual wellness is uniquely yours.
For couples affected by sexual challenges, the impact often ripples throughout the entire relationship—affecting communication, emotional intimacy, trust, and overall satisfaction. Partners may feel rejected, inadequate, frustrated, or disconnected, creating cycles of avoidance and resentment that further compound the original difficulties.
Types of Sexual Concerns We Address Through Specialized Sex Therapy
Desire Discrepancy and Low Libido
Mismatched sex drives create significant relationship strain, with one partner feeling rejected and the other feeling pressured. Our intimacy counseling helps couples understand the complex factors affecting desire, develop compassion for each partner’s experience, and find mutually satisfying solutions that honor both people’s needs without blame or pathologizing either person’s natural libido level.
Erectile Dysfunction and Arousal Difficulties
Problems with erection or arousal often involve complex interactions between physical, psychological, and relational factors. Our sexual dysfunction treatment addresses performance anxiety, medical contributions, relationship dynamics, and the underlying emotional patterns that interfere with natural arousal responses, helping you reclaim confident, embodied sexuality.
Premature or Delayed Ejaculation
Ejaculatory concerns—whether reaching orgasm too quickly or struggling to climax—create frustration and disconnection for individuals and couples. Our sex therapy approach addresses both behavioral techniques and deeper psychological patterns including anxiety, control issues, and disconnection from bodily sensations that contribute to these challenges.
Painful Intercourse and Pelvic Floor Issues
Sexual pain conditions like vaginismus, dyspareunia, and pelvic floor dysfunction require sensitive, specialized attention. Our approach coordinates with medical providers while addressing the psychological components including trauma history, anxiety, and the mind-body connection that significantly affects pain perception and sexual response.
Orgasm Difficulties and Anorgasmia
Inability to reach orgasm—or difficulty doing so with a partner—involves complex factors including anatomy, technique, psychological blocks, trauma history, and relational dynamics. Our couples sex therapist helps individuals and partners understand orgasmic response, address barriers, and develop pathways to pleasure that honor your unique body and needs.
Sexual Trauma Recovery and PTSD
Past sexual abuse, assault, or coercion creates lasting impacts on sexuality, intimacy, and the body’s ability to experience pleasure and safety. Our sexual trauma recovery work provides sensitive, specialized support for healing these wounds at their source, reclaiming your body, and rebuilding capacity for healthy, enjoyable sexual experiences.
Our Root-Cause Approach to Sex Therapy
Orgonomic (Reichian) Therapy for Sexual Vitality
Sexual difficulties don’t just live in your mind—they become encoded in your body as muscular armor and blocked life energy. Our specialized Orgonomic therapy approach combines character analysis with bodywork to break through defensive armoring, restore natural breathing patterns, and release trapped tension from your physical self. This sexual dysfunction treatment modality helps you reclaim authentic emotional and sexual expression and embodied aliveness.
Emotion-Focused Therapy for Sexual Intimacy
EFT helps you identify, experience, and transform the deepest emotions underlying your sexual difficulties while building secure attachment patterns with your partner. This humanistic intimacy counseling approach teaches you to understand the emotional cycles that create distance and disconnection, replacing them with patterns of responsiveness and vulnerability that enhance both emotional and sexual connection.
Depth Psychology and Sexual Identity
We explore how unconscious patterns, early experiences, and family-of-origin dynamics affect your sexuality, desires, and capacity for intimate connection. Through psychodynamic work with dreams, fantasies, and the therapeutic relationship itself, we bring hidden influences into conscious awareness where they can be understood, integrated, and transformed.
Somatic Approaches to Sexual Embodiment
Sexuality is fundamentally embodied, yet many people are disconnected from their bodies due to trauma, shame, or cultural conditioning. Our sex therapy incorporates somatic awareness practices that help you inhabit your body more fully, increase sensation and pleasure, and develop the body-mind integration essential for satisfying sexuality.
Creating Safety as the Foundation
Confidentiality and Non-Judgment
We prioritize absolute confidentiality and create environments free from judgment, shame, or pathologizing. Whatever your sexual concerns, preferences, fantasies, or experiences, you can share openly knowing you’ll be met with professionalism, respect, and compassion. Our couples sex therapist approach normalizes the wide range of human sexual experience.
Affirming All Identities and Orientations
We provide truly affirmative sex therapy for individuals and couples of all sexual orientations, gender identities, and relationship structures. Whether you’re straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual, pansexual, asexual, polyamorous, kinky, vanilla, or anywhere on these spectrums, we honor your authentic sexuality without trying to change or pathologize who you are.
Boundaries and Consent in Therapy
We maintain clear professional boundaries while discussing intimate topics openly. Our sexual dysfunction treatment never involves any physical sexual activity—we work through conversation, education, exercises for home practice, and therapeutic techniques that help you develop skills and awareness you can apply in your own intimate life.
Cultural Competency and Diverse Perspectives
We understand how cultural backgrounds, religious upbringing, and family messages about sexuality shape your experience. Our culturally competent intimacy counseling helps you navigate tensions between inherited values and personal desires, finding authentic integration rather than wholesale rejection of either.
Addressing Complex Sexual Challenges
Performance Anxiety and Sexual Perfectionism
The pressure to perform creates a self-fulfilling prophecy where anxiety interferes with natural sexual response, which increases anxiety, which further impairs function. Our sex therapy helps you break these cycles, shift from performance to presence, and develop self-compassion that allows your body to respond naturally without the weight of impossible expectations.
Body Image and Sexual Self-Esteem
Negative body image profoundly affects sexuality—creating self-consciousness, avoidance, distraction during intimacy, and inability to receive pleasure. Our sexual trauma recovery approach addresses the wounds underlying poor body image while helping you develop embodied self-acceptance that allows you to be present and open during sexual experiences.
Pornography Use and Sexual Compulsivity
We provide non-shaming support for those concerned about their pornography use or sexual behaviors, helping you understand your patterns, their functions, and whether change is desired. Our couples sex therapist approach avoids pathologizing all pornography use while providing genuine help for those whose sexual behaviors feel compulsive or create relationship difficulties.
Navigating Sexual Differences in Relationships
Partners often have different preferences, fantasies, boundaries, and comfort levels around various sexual activities. Our intimacy counseling helps couples communicate about these differences respectfully, negotiate compromises, and find ways to honor both partners’ needs without coercion, resentment, or suppression of authentic desires.
Rebuilding Sexual Connection and Intimacy
Emotional Intimacy as Foundation
We understand that sexual connection rarely thrives without emotional intimacy. Our sex therapy addresses the full relationship context, helping couples build the trust, vulnerability, and emotional responsiveness that create conditions for satisfying sexuality. Sex becomes an expression of connection rather than a performance or obligation.
Communication About Sex and Desires
Many sexual difficulties stem from inability to discuss sex openly with partners. Our sexual dysfunction treatment includes developing vocabulary and comfort for sexual communication, learning to express desires without shame, and creating ongoing dialogue about sexuality that allows your intimate life to evolve with your relationship.
Sensate Focus and Mindful Sexuality
We teach sensate focus techniques and mindfulness practices that help you shift from goal-oriented sex to present-centered pleasure. These intimacy counseling approaches reduce performance pressure, increase sensation and awareness, and help couples reconnect physically after periods of avoidance or difficulty.
Reigniting Desire in Long-Term Relationships
Desire naturally fluctuates in long-term relationships, and many couples experience periods of decreased sexual interest or activity. Our couples sex therapist approach helps you understand desire dynamics, differentiate between spontaneous and responsive desire, and develop practices that maintain eroticism while honoring the deep intimacy of established partnership.
Sexual Trauma Recovery and Healing
Creating Safety in the Body
Sexual trauma often leaves survivors feeling unsafe in their own bodies, disconnected from sensation, or hypervigilant during intimate moments. Our sexual trauma recovery work prioritizes rebuilding embodied safety, helping you reclaim your body as your own and develop capacity for pleasurable sensation without triggering traumatic responses.
Separating Past from Present
Trauma can collapse time, making past experiences feel present during current intimate encounters. Our sex therapy helps you differentiate between then and now, developing awareness of triggers while building capacity to stay present with safe partners in consensual experiences.
Rebuilding Trust and Vulnerability
Betrayal trauma—whether from sexual assault, infidelity, or other violations—damages capacity for intimate trust. Our intimacy counseling helps you gradually rebuild ability to be vulnerable, developing discernment about trustworthy partners while not closing off entirely from connection.
Reclaiming Pleasure as Your Right
Survivors often struggle to feel entitled to pleasure, as if enjoying sexuality somehow diminishes their trauma or makes them complicit. Our sexual trauma recovery approach affirms that you deserve pleasure, that your body belongs to you, and that healing includes reclaiming joy and satisfaction, not just surviving.
Addressing Co-Occurring Conditions
Anxiety and Depression
Mental health conditions significantly affect sexuality—anxiety creates performance issues and avoidance, while depression decreases desire and capacity for pleasure. Our sex therapy addresses these interconnections, providing integrated treatment that improves both mental health and sexual functioning simultaneously.
Medical Conditions and Medications
Many medical conditions and medications affect sexual function. Our sexual dysfunction treatment coordinates with your medical providers while addressing the psychological adaptation required when health conditions change your sexual experience. We help you find new pathways to intimacy that work with your body’s current reality.
Substance Use and Sexuality
Alcohol and drug use intertwine with sexuality in complex ways—sometimes facilitating connection, often creating problems. Our couples sex therapist approach helps you examine these patterns, address substance use concerns, and develop capacity for authentic intimacy without chemical assistance.
Relationship Distress and Sexual Problems
Sexual difficulties and relationship problems create bidirectional influence—each worsening the other in destructive cycles. Our intimacy counseling addresses both simultaneously, improving relationship functioning while specifically targeting sexual concerns within the context of your partnership dynamics.
Sexual Growth and Exploration
Expanding Your Sexual Repertoire
Some people seek sex therapy not because something is wrong but because they want to grow, explore, and expand their sexual experiences. Our affirming approach supports sexual exploration, helping individuals and couples discover new aspects of their sexuality safely, consensually, and with full awareness.
Integrating Fantasy and Reality
Sexual fantasies sometimes create confusion, shame, or relationship tension. Our sex therapy helps you understand the function of fantasy, differentiate between fantasy and desire, and navigate conversations with partners about fantasies that may or may not be enacted in real life.
Sexuality Across the Lifespan
Sexuality evolves throughout life—hormonal changes, aging, health conditions, and relationship transitions all affect sexual experience. Our sexual dysfunction treatment helps you adapt to these changes, finding continued satisfaction and connection as your body and circumstances evolve over time.
Developing Sexual Authenticity
Many people perform sexuality based on external scripts rather than authentic desire. Our intimacy counseling helps you discover what you genuinely want—not what you think you should want—and develop the confidence to pursue authentic sexuality that aligns with your true self.
The Angeles Psychology Group Difference
Free Consultation to Ensure Fit
We offer a complimentary 20-minute consultation allowing you to experience our therapists and determine therapeutic fit before any financial commitment. Finding the right sex therapy provider is crucial given the intimate nature of this work, and we never want cost to be a barrier to finding the right match.
Extended Hours and Flexibility
Our couples sex therapist services are available 7 AM-10 PM daily, accommodating diverse schedules and providing flexibility for individuals and couples. We offer both in-person sessions in our tranquil office and secure telehealth options for those who prefer remote access for this sensitive work.
Tranquil Healing Environment
Our office provides a peaceful oasis with beautiful views, complimentary tea service, cozy blankets, comfortable seating, and a private retreat space for contemplation before or after sessions. The environment itself supports the vulnerable work of sexual healing and growth.
Modern Healthcare Platform
We utilize a secure, user-friendly platform for scheduling, paperwork, and payment, making access to sexual trauma recovery services as seamless as possible while maintaining complete confidentiality and HIPAA compliance for your most sensitive information.
Concierge-Level Service
You have one primary point of contact ensuring continuity and personalized attention throughout your healing journey. No navigating complex systems or getting lost in bureaucracy—just consistent, attentive care focused on your unique needs and goals.
Your Sexual Healing Journey Begins Here
Sexual transformation requires courage, vulnerability, and commitment to growth. The journey involves breakthroughs and setbacks, profound insights and gradual shifts, and calls for tremendous self-compassion and patience. Our role is to walk alongside you, providing the specialized sex therapy support, safety, and understanding you need to move through this journey at your own authentic pace while honoring your unique experience and desires.
You deserve to experience satisfying sexuality. You deserve to feel confident, connected, and alive in your body. You deserve the pleasure, intimacy, and authentic expression that sexual difficulties may have compromised. With the right support through comprehensive sexual dysfunction treatment, intimacy counseling, and specialized couples sex therapist services, genuine healing and lasting transformation are possible.
Take the First Courageous Step
Beginning sex therapy requires tremendous courage given the vulnerability involved in discussing intimate concerns. We honor that courage and provide immediate, compassionate support to help you start this healing journey safely and at your own pace. Contact Angeles Psychology Group today to schedule your free consultation and discover how our transformative sexual trauma recovery approach can help you reclaim vitality, restore intimate connection, and build the satisfying sexual life you deserve.
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Meet Our Founder
Neil Schierholz PsyD
I am the founder of Angeles Psychology Group and a Clinical Psychologist with a focus on helping people heal from chaos, overwhelm, harshness, and social inhibitions. Much of my work focuses on relationships: The relationship you have with yourself, others, the environment, and the cosmos.
I help people come home to who they really are, either by remembering it or discovering it for the first time. This happens through dismantling and gaining lasting freedom from unconscious defenses that are holding you back from having the life you really want and can have. I primarily use holistic character analysis and orgonomic (somatic) therapy in my work, coupled with a strong sociocultural, feminist orientation.
I work with adult individuals, couples, families, and all sorts of personal and professional relationships.
Research shows that the relationship you have with your therapist is the most important factor for successful outcomes. Let’s get started with a free consultation to explore if I’m the best fit for you.
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